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فرح: we say it every year — we say why on earth do we celebrate our mothers...

Sun, 12 May 2013 11:26:29 -0500

فرح: we say it every year — we say why on earth do we celebrate our mothers...:

we say it every year — we say why on earth do we celebrate our mothers once a year when we can honor them daily? but we don’t honor mothers daily. we continue to live in a world that guarantees the subjugation, exploitation, and desecration of the mother. we continue to live in a world which bites…

"Knowing how to be solitary is central to the art of loving. When we can be alone, we can be with..."

Wed, 24 Apr 2013 20:15:51 -0500

“Knowing how to be solitary is central to the art of loving. When we can be alone, we can be with others without using them as a means of escape.”

- Bell Hooks

"Not everyone is okay with living like an open wound. But the thing about open wounds is that, well,..."

Sun, 21 Apr 2013 18:08:46 -0500

“Not everyone is okay with living like an open wound. But the thing about open wounds is that, well, you aren’t ignoring it. You’re healing; the fresh air can get to it. It’s honest. You aren’t hiding who you are. You aren’t rotting. People can give you advice on how to heal without scarring badly. But on the other hand there are some people who’ll feel uncomfortable around you. Some will even point and laugh. But we all have wounds.”

- Warsan Shire

"I will forget you and if that doesn’t sound romantic, it’s because it isn’t. It’s a simple..."

Sat, 20 Apr 2013 11:06:00 -0500

“I will forget you and if that doesn’t sound romantic, it’s because it isn’t. It’s a simple inevitability, a truth colder than the last night we spent together. Remember that night? When I woke up in the morning and felt nothing familiar, that’s when I knew it was over for good. At least, that’s what I think happened. I fill in the blanks sometimes because I’ve already begun to forget.

I remember the color of your hair, but not the color of your laugh. I remember your name, that one’s easy; I don’t remember how your parents say it in their native tongue (I forgot that one the second you told me). I remember that you exist, that we spent some of our time together for what now feels like a blip, a sneeze, a little nothing. But I forget everything else, like what brought us together and what drove us apart. And mostly everything that happened in between that.

I forget what it’s like to kiss you and what it’s like to want to. I forget what it feels like to hold your hand, if we ever even held hands, it feels like we didn’t. I forget what it’s like to trust you, to believe in you, to need you. I forget what it’s like to think that I’d never forget any of it. For a long time, I thought I never would. You and I both know you left ghosts behind, but they seem to have found someone new to haunt. Maybe it’s you.

The inside jokes have already dissolved into unordered words with no punchline. The gifts have been reduced to objects whose saving grace is their monetary value, no meaning and all function. There are photographs, somewhere, but I’m not the person posed in them anymore and whoever that is sitting next to me, all dressed up in your costume and wearing your mask, well, that’s not you either. But what do I know about who you are? I forget that part, if I ever knew it to begin with.

I won’t forget you the way I won’t forget the Blizzard of ’96 or the pain of getting a wisdom tooth removed. Like something that happened to me once and then unhappened to me and then didn’t matter anymore.

But I will forget you where it counts, like in the eyes and in the mornings and in the moments that felt and looked and tasted a lot like love. I will forget you in those places because I already have.”

- Stephanie Georgopulos

clutchmag: Find Our Missing: Daja Blount The New Orleans...

Sat, 30 Mar 2013 17:48:39 -0500

clutchmag:

Find Our Missing: Daja Blount

The New Orleans Police Department is searching for Daja Blount. The 13-year-old has been missing…

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"The worst of all possible things that could happen would be to lose that language [that black people..."

Fri, 29 Mar 2013 18:16:22 -0500

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The worst of all possible things that could happen would be to lose that language [that black people love so much]. There are certain things I cannot say without recourse to my language. It’s terrible to think that a child with five different present tenses comes to school to be faced with those books that are less than his own language. And then to be told things about his language, which is him, that are sometimes permanently damaging… This is a really cruel fallout of racism. I know the Standard English. I want to use it to help restore the other language, the lingua franca.

1. He ø runnin. Standard American English (SAE )= He is running.

2. He be runnin. SAE = He is usually running or He will/would be running.

3. He be steady runnin. SAE = He is usually running in an intensive, sustained manner, or He will/would be running in an intensive, sustained manner.

4. He(’s) been/bin runnin. SAE He has been running–at some earlier point, but probably not now.
Other examples: I been knowing her. SAE = I have known her.
About eleven o’clock he been eating. SAE = … he was eating.

5. He BEEN/BIN runnin’. SAE = He has been running for a long time, and still is.
-This is a use of the African American English (AAE) stressed been/remote BIN.

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- My mother Toni Morrison on AAVE (via howtobeterrell)

this is for whoever was telling me that AAVE isn’t a real thing… UGH

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Note how precise each AAVE phrase is.

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Cries from perfection

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For anyone who thinks aave is just slang.
-Morgan

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"…Until the lions have their own historians, the history of the hunt will always glorify the hunter."

Tue, 26 Mar 2013 17:25:09 -0500

“…Until the lions have their own historians, the history of the hunt will always glorify the hunter.”

- Chinua Achebe, great Nigerian author and often considered the father of modern African lit, who just passed away. Rest in Peace. (source)

"Take me to your trees. Take me to your breakfasts, your sunsets, your bad dreams, your shoes, your..."

Sat, 23 Mar 2013 13:50:36 -0500

““Take me to your trees. Take me to your breakfasts, your sunsets, your bad dreams, your shoes, your nouns. Take me to your fingers; take me to your deaths.””

- Margaret Atwood

uaeveggies: Have a good night, everyone! - UAE (United for...

Sat, 23 Mar 2013 13:28:00 -0500

uaeveggies:

Have a good night, everyone! - UAE (United for Animal Ethics) Veggies

badgerwrangler: moxiefolderol: heartsnbruises: tifannilly: sp...

Wed, 20 Mar 2013 23:12:00 -0500

badgerwrangler:

moxiefolderol:

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tifannilly:

spooky-sheep:

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queenannika:

68 year old gardener Peter Glazebrook produces onion weighing 18lb and smashes the world record previously set by himself.

i am so happy 4 him look how happy he looks

a man and his onion

he’s gazing at it so tenderly

my son……..

MY SONION

Carry on my wayward sonion. There’ll be peace when you are donion.

lay your weary roots to rest, you can’t make me cry no more

"Everyone who terrifies you is sixty-five percent water. And everyone you love is made of stardust,..."

Tue, 19 Mar 2013 21:32:00 -0500

“Everyone who terrifies you is sixty-five percent water.
And everyone you love is made of stardust, and I know sometimes you cannot even breathe deeply, and the night sky is no home,
and you have cried yourself to sleep enough times that you are down to your last two percent, but
nothing is infinite,
not even loss.
You are made of the sea and the stars, and one day
you are going to find yourself again.”

- Finn Butler

"The unfounded fear that young children will somehow become “impure” if they learn about a dirty..."

Sun, 17 Mar 2013 19:22:00 -0500

“The unfounded fear that young children will somehow become “impure” if they learn about a dirty subject like sex is deeply rooted in American culture. Our society assumes that human sexuality is dark, dangerous, and shameful — something we need to protect teens from, rather than teach them about. Teens consistently learn that it’s not okay to talk about sex because it’s supposed to be totally off-limits to them, constrained to the bounds of a traditional marriage. But this attitude has led to disastrous consequences: damaging women and LGBT Americans’ sense of sexual self-worth, fueling the STD epidemic, and creating a moral environment where rape culture has flourished.”

- “Kindergartners Shouldn’t Be Taught Sex Ed” — And Other Myths Endangering America’s Youth

"Students who considered themselves socialists were not so much interested in the poor as they were..."

Sun, 17 Mar 2013 18:27:00 -0500

““Students who considered themselves socialists were not so much interested in the poor as they were desirous of leading the poor, of being their guides and saviors. It was just this paternalism toward the poor that the vision of solidarity I had learned in religious settings was meant to challenge. From a spiritual perspective, the poor were there to guide and lead the rest of us by example if not by outright action and testimony. As a student I read Marx, Gramsci, and a host of other male thinkers on the subject of class. These works provided theoretical paradigms but rarely offered tools for confronting the complexity of class in daily life. […] [W]hen I told friends and colleagues that I was resigning from my academic job to focus on writing, I was warned that I was making a dangerous mistake, that I could not possibly live on an income that was between twenty and thirty thousand dollars a year. When I pointed to the reality that families of four and more live on such an income, the response would be “that’s different”; the difference being, of course, one of class. The poor are expected to live with less and are socialized to accept less (badly made clothing, products, food, etc.), whereas the well-off are socialized to believe it is both a right and a necessity for us to have more, to have exactly what we want when we want it.””

- bell hooks, where we stand: Class Matters

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Fri, 15 Mar 2013 17:20:00 -0500

"The problem, often not discovered until late in life, is that when you look for things like love,..."

Thu, 14 Mar 2013 20:26:00 -0500

“The problem, often not discovered until late in life, is that when you look for things like love, meaning, motivation, it implies they are sitting behind a tree or under a rock. The most successful people recognize, that in life they create their own love, they manufacture their own meaning, they generate their own motivation.

For me, I am driven by two main philosophies, know more today about the world than I knew yesterday. And along the way, lessen the suffering of others. You’d be surprised how far that gets you.”

- Neil deGrasse Tyson, during his Reddit AMA (March 01, 2012)

thesadsundays: it’s amazing how much of feminism is white middle-upper class women complaining that...

Thu, 14 Mar 2013 19:00:00 -0500

thesadsundays:

it’s amazing how much of feminism is white middle-upper class women complaining that they can’t dominate/exploit others in the same way white men can

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Thu, 14 Mar 2013 18:48:00 -0500

"why do you live in your body like you will be given another? as if it were temporary. you starve it,..."

Thu, 14 Mar 2013 10:21:00 -0500

“why do you live in your body like you will be given another? as if it were temporary. you starve it, you let anyone touch it, you berate it. tell it that should be completely different. you tug at your soft flesh, wish it thinner, wish it gone. you fall in love with those who praise the way it sighs under their hands, but who praises the way it holds up your weight, even when you are falling apart?”

- warsan shire (via warsanshire)

"Kimani Gray shot 17 times in the street. His family lost another son one year ago. Where was the..."

Thu, 14 Mar 2013 07:45:00 -0500

“Kimani Gray shot 17 times in the street. His family lost another son one year ago. Where was the help for them then? We see so many nationwide calls for counseling in white communities after violent tragedy. In New York we have communities dealing with this daily. Do you think Kimani would have been shot 17 times if he was white? Can you imagine a white 16 year old being shot 17 times. The police emptying more bullets than years alive into a boy on the street yelling he does not want to die? What is the police commissioner’s response to a councilman standing up for Kimani Gray and East Flatbush? Kelley told him if he did not like it, he should move to a white neighborhood.”

- Damien Crisp (via uxxr)

And now the police have barred press from covering the candlelight vigil in East Flatbush, arrested at least three people and will probably get violent then claim this peaceful gathering was a riot. So done with the NYPD. How many children have to die before we start holding someone fucking accountable?

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"All women speak two languages: the language of men  and the language of silent suffering. Some women..."

Wed, 13 Mar 2013 13:30:00 -0500

“All women speak two languages: the language of men  and the language of silent suffering. Some women speak a third,  the language of queens.”

- “The Marvelous Women” by Mohja Kahf

t.s. fixe

فرح: we say it every year — we say why on earth do we celebrate our mothers...

"Knowing how to be solitary is central to the art of loving. When we can be alone, we can be with..."

"Not everyone is okay with living like an open wound. But the thing about open wounds is that, well,..."

"I will forget you and if that doesn’t sound romantic, it’s because it isn’t. It’s a simple..."

clutchmag: Find Our Missing: Daja Blount The New Orleans...

"The worst of all possible things that could happen would be to lose that language [that black people..."

"…Until the lions have their own historians, the history of the hunt will always glorify the hunter."

"Take me to your trees. Take me to your breakfasts, your sunsets, your bad dreams, your shoes, your..."

uaeveggies: Have a good night, everyone! - UAE (United for...

badgerwrangler: moxiefolderol: heartsnbruises: tifannilly: sp...

"Everyone who terrifies you is sixty-five percent water. And everyone you love is made of stardust,..."

"The unfounded fear that young children will somehow become “impure” if they learn about a dirty..."

"Students who considered themselves socialists were not so much interested in the poor as they were..."

Photo

"The problem, often not discovered until late in life, is that when you look for things like love,..."

thesadsundays: it’s amazing how much of feminism is white middle-upper class women complaining that...

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"why do you live in your body like you will be given another? as if it were temporary. you starve it,..."

"Kimani Gray shot 17 times in the street. His family lost another son one year ago. Where was the..."

"All women speak two languages: the language of men and the language of silent suffering. Some women..."

"All women speak two languages: the language of men  and the language of silent suffering. Some women..."